感悟父爱

出版时间：2009-9  出版社：北京燕山出版社  作者：刘彦军，高华军 著  页数：246  字数：250000  

内容概要

让喜欢英文的读者爱不释手
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 本书所选故事、散文、诗歌，短小精悍、滴水藏海、文字隽永，每一篇都闪烁着智慧之光。
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爱、人生、事业、心灵、亲情、家庭、幸福……一个个直抵心灵的主题，翻开这本心灵鸡汤，开启我们人生的智慧吧！
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 让我们感受原汁的英文意境；收获改变一生的智慧箴言吧！

书籍目录

四月雨带来五月花
April Showers Bring May Flowers
人人有本难念的经
Every Living Person Has Problems
伸向阳光
Reach for the Light
上帝和父亲
God and Father
爸爸的藏宝图
A Giant Mystery
绅士的定义
The Definition of a Gentleman
时间的价值
The Value of Time
皮匠和银行家
The Cobbler and the Banker
集中注意力在商业中的作用
Business Results through Concentration
通过集中注意力来使欲望成真
How Concentration Can Fulfill Your Desire
任伺事物都有可取之处
There Is Good in All Things
放 手
Let Go
爱似鲜花盛开
Love in Bloom
大声说出你的爱
Say“I Love You”
网络情缘
My Cyber’ Love
熟悉的陌生人
Those Strangers We Know
不朽的爱情
Enduring
父母间的恩爱
Love between Father and Mother
蝶吻
Butterfly Kisses
永远的红玫瑰
Her Name Was Rose
繁忙的日子
My Busy Day
当艾莉长大成人时
When Allie Left Home
积极思考是富有感染力的
Positive Thinking Is Contagious
自己的态度只有自己来控制
The Only Person in Charge of My Attitude Is Me
三颗桃核
Three Peach Stones
选择快乐，所以快乐
Be Happy Cause I Choose Happiness
人生不是一次彩排
Life Isn’t a Dress Rehearsal
有个女孩叫莉儿
A Lady Named Lill
一封珍贵的回信
A Precious Letter
爱与时间
Love and Time
接受不可避免的事实
Cooperate with the Inevitable
要学会持之以恒
The Reward of Persistence
对月
To the Moon
比尔?盖茨写给毕业生的11条人生箴言
11 Rules Bill Gates Writes For High School And College
Graduates
培养热忱
Develop Controlled Enthusiasm
渴望中诞生希望
Faith Consist in Desire
劳动
Work
母爱
Mother’s Love
爱的印记
Love’s Imprint
乡村溜冰场
The Rustic Rink
如何避免愚蠢的想法?
How to Avoid Foolish Opinions?
坚强的意志
Determination
我的信条
This I Believe
百分之二的成功者
The 2 Percent Who Succeed
渡过沙洲
Crossing the Bar
大海颂
Ode to the Sea
探寻未知的美好
Finding You Do not Seek
培养感激的态度
Develop an Attitude of Gratitude
你得到的就是你想到的
What You See is What You Get
我喜欢这种淡淡的感觉
I Like the Subtle Feeling
学会珍惜
What Will Matter
如何面对未来
How to Face the Future
热情创造奇迹
The Triumphs of Enthusiasm
一件连衣裙
The Dress
浪漫的瞬间
Forever in Their Eyes
果冻心
Jelly Hearts
生活中的小小惊喜
Life’s Little Wonders
美好的晚年
The Golden Years
我们将走向何方
Where Are We Heading
感悟生活
Word of Wisdom
培根论真理
Self-Reliance
蜉蝣
Francis Bacon on Truth
年轻人
The Ephemera
生活的艺术
The Art of Living
生活给我上的一课
A Lesson of Life
放松自我
Relax Yourself

章节摘录

　　没有错误，只有教训　　佚　名　　人的成长是一个不断尝试、不断经历失误、又不断获得新知的过程。每次，当你信心十足，准备采取行动时，对于会有什么样的结果发生，你无从知晓——或许成功，或许失败。然而，失败并不意味着毫无价值。事实上，我们往往能从失败中学到更多的东西。　　假如你犯了一个错误，或是未达到自己所期望的标准，你很可能会在自我与所谓的犯错者之间构筑一道壁垒。然而，对以往的行为全盘否定，势必会让你感到内疚、自责。深陷其中，你就不可能从中汲取有益的东西。因此，过分苛求自己时，最需要的就是自我宽恕。　　宽恕就是放下情感上的包袱，抹平心灵上的创伤。它有四种类型：　　第一种是对自己的初级宽恕。　　第二种是对他人的初级宽恕。　　第三种是对自己更深层次的宽恕。这种宽恕是针对自己深感羞愧的极大恶行而言。如果你所做的事有悖于自己的价值观和道德观，这时，你就在自己的为人准则和实际行动间制造了一道裂痕。这种情况下，你就必须努力悔改，以此来弥补过错，并要重新找到自我。当然，这并不是说你可以随意原谅自己，毫无悔意，但一味地埋怨自己是不健康的，过分的自我惩罚只会让你偏离自己道德准则的轨道越来越远。　　第四种可能是最难的一种宽恕——是对他人更深层次的宽恕。生活中，你也许会受到极大委屈和伤害。以此来看，这似乎是不可原谅的。但是，心怀怨恨、企图报复只会使你陷于受伤害的阴影中。在这种情况下，你就要强迫自己放宽胸怀。只有这样，才能把注意力转移开来，不至于一味地沉浸在恼怒和仇恨中。只有做到宽恕，你才能忘却过错，净化心灵。于是，当你最终把自己解脱出来时，很自然地，你就会把它看成是成长过程中必不可少的一部分。　　There are No Mistakes，　　Only lessons　　Anonymous　　Human growth is a process of experimentation， trial， and error， ultimately　leading to wisdom. Each time you choose to trust yourself and take action， you can never quite be certain how the situation will turn out. Sometimes you are victorious，　and　sometimes　you　become　disillusioned.　The　failed　experiments， however， are no less valuable than the experiments that ultimately prove successful; in fact， you usually learn more from your perceived “failures”than you do from your perceived “successes”.　　If you have made what you perceive to be a mistake， or failed to live up to your own expectations， you will most likely put up a barrier between your essence and the part of you that is the alleged wrong-doer. However， perceiving past actions as mistakes implies guilt and blame， and it is not possible to learn anything meaningful while you are engaged in blaming. Therefore， forgiveness is required when you are harshly judging yourself.　　Forgiveness is the act of erasing an emotional debt. There are four kinds of forgiveness:　　The first is beginner forgiveness for yourself.　　The second kind of forgiveness is beginner forgiveness for another.　　The third kind of forgiveness is advanced forgiveness of yourself. This is for serious transgressions， the ones you carry with deep shame. When you do something that violates your own values and ethics， you create a chasm between your standards and your actual behavior. In such a case， you need to work very hard at forgiving yourself for these deeds so that you call close this chasm and realign with the best part of yourself. This does not mean that you should rush to forgive yourself or not feel regret or remorse; but wallowing in these feelings for a protracted period of time is not healthy， and punishing yourself excessively will only creates a bigger gap between you and your ethics.　　The last and perhaps most difficult one is the advanced forgiveness of another.At some time of our life，you may have been severely wronged or hurt by another person to such a degree that forgiveness seems impossible. However， harboring resentment and revenge fantasies only keep you trapped in victimhood. Under such a circumstance，you should force yourself to see the bigger picture， by so doing， you will be able to shift the focus away from the anger and resentment. It is only through forgiveness that you can erase wrongdoing and clean the memory. When you can finally release the situation，you may come to see it as a necessary part of your growth．　　……

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